How to send a private message Feb 14, 2004 15:51:14 GMT -5 Select PostDeselect PostLink to PostMemberGive GiftBack to Top Post by Diane on Feb 14, 2004 15:51:14 GMT -5 Click on the member's name, scroll down to "send this member a private message." Private messages and replies can only be seen by the sender and the person being sent the private message.